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2018 Here and Gone…

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This year has been a roller coaster of delights; ups and downs, and curves galore. I have spent much of this year working on my career goals and getting my writing mojo back. Of course I also spent the year with close friends and family and a slew of traveling. It’s been a great period of growth for me and also a period of reflection.

From a career standpoint I was able to network my way back to the city of my heart – New York City, specifically Brooklyn (and in Brooklyn specifically Bedford Stuyvesant). I am actually proud of myself that I was able to pull it off. I thought I would have to leave my current company to do it and that was almost the case, but things were able to be worked out and I am not back where I truly feel I belong and where I thrive.

I found myself in the streets of New York City, with the help of people who have become my family. We may not be blood related, but they are the family that I have patch-worked together across boroughs, cities, and even countries. Leaving the city wasn’t what I wanted, but I did what was necessary at the time; and now, I’m back to stay.

Writing, ah writing…

Back in February, my muse decided to come out and play and I was very excited. I’m happy to stay that the passion and drive that began this year didn’t fade at all; it’s actually grown in fact. I participated in both Camp NaNoWriMo’s (one in April and one in July), as well as NaNoWriMo in November.

April was a dud in the writing department, namely due to work and the big career move I was trying to make; the muse was not happy. July was better and I was able to win that and get what I needed written, which spawned a lot of planning for November. NaNo was a success in November with me being able to write more than 50k words that month. So exciting! This past month I’ve actually been working on a completely different idea as well as editing some fan-fiction that I have ready to go for some fans in particular.

All in all, it’s been a great year in the writing department – I hope it continues into 2019.

Friends and family rallied around me for a couple things this year; one, I raised money from Leukemia and Lymph Society’s Team in Training and ran the NYC Marathon this year. Huge feat – I was pissed off about my time (didn’t finish anywhere near I wanted), but in the end…I DID IT!!! It was a great accomplishment and something I’ve been wanting to do for years – so go me!

The other item on the agenda was traveling! Every year I travel and I tend to go to multiple places. This year was great because it was an awesome mix of old favorites and new exciting places. And not only were the places I visited a mix of old and new, the people I traveled with were too!

I started my year by traveling to an old favorite; San Francisco, California. I went here with some new friends from work, but one of my oldest friends in the world. It was a great way to start off 2018. Next trip was back to wine country with my sister for the BottleRock music festival. Let me tell you – the festival is expensive, but for the two of us – totally worth it. I love how much I’ve bonded with my younger sister during this time; we’ve learned a lot about each other I feel during this time.

The sisterly time wasn’t done yet; in July, she and I went to Iceland and had an awesome time. August came and went with a new city and new travel buddy! I went to Ireland for the very first time, ran an international half marathon for the first time, and travelled with a new buddy for her first trip to Ireland as well! I’d heard the food was horrible here, but I have to disagree – I ate so well while I was there. The views are fantastic along the coasts, and the city of Dublin is so cute!

As the year has wound to a close, I find myself writing from the beautiful and old city of Lisbon, Portugal. My big brother and I are enjoying our first solo international trip together. This city is breathtaking, the food is delicious, and the weather in December has been phenomenal. We’ve already decided to come back!

So what have I learned this year? There haven’t been any great flashes of insights or big revelations. The knowledge that I have learned this year has always been with me, but I guess this was the year that I finally voiced what I knew to be true for a long time.

Here’s what I figured out:

I can be disappointed in how long it took to do something; but that never negates the accomplishment of actually putting in the work and doing it.

I have an abundance of experiences that I’ve already lived through, and they are preparing me for what is to come.

I have the capacity to be so much more than what I am right now – it will just take time to get there.

I am truly and well loved and cared for.

Simple things right? Like I said, no rocket science in there at all, but still lessons learned and hard won.

With that, I will bid 2018 a hearty goodbye and farewell.

See you in 2019!

Happy New Year!

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Autumn has gone, winter is here, and the end of the year is near…

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Year’s end is neither an end nor a beginning but a going on, with all the wisdom that experience can instill in us.  ~ Hal Borland

My autumn truly began in Long Island, NY at another half marathon the first weekend in October. This half marathon is called the Diva’s Half Marathon and it was very fun. They gave us tiaras and feather boas to cross the finish line in as well as little champagne flutes of sparkly juice at the end.

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Run Sister Run Divas! My big sis Taj & me. 

Later in the month I went geo caching for the first time with a friend of mine in Punderson State Park here in Cleveland. It was an absolutely gorgeous autumn day. Temperatures were close to the low 60s, the sun was shining, and all of the leaves were changing colors beautifully. We hiked for a few hours caught up and then warmed up with tea. It was a great way to end the month.

November is always a short month to me because of Thanksgiving. Every year I take shameless advantage of the fact that I have a built-in four-day weekend due to turkey day. This year I went to Germany; Munich to be exact. A close friend of mine moved to the city with her husband and I went for a visit. I only stayed for a week but I was able to get a lot done. Here are some of the highlights:

Zugspitze: highest peak in the German portion of the Alps:

Architecture and History in Munich: the whole freaking city is awesome, way too much cool architecture to see in a week, will be going back to see more.

Deutsch Museum: Science & Technology Museum; this is a definite must see! You need at least half a day to get through most of this place…just plan a whole day.

Day Trips: Nurnberg (only a 2 hour train ride away)

Christmas Markets: while I was there most Christmas markets were just opening up. I was able to go to more local markets, which was very nice.

Needless to say the trip was so much fun. My friends had to work during the day say, so most of my trip I was alone wandering about, but its nice traveling alone sometimes. I had plenty of time for reflection and I didn’t rush anywhere. I was able to take my time and see the city the way I wanted to. I missed some things but not many, either way I will be going to Munich again.

My trip to Germany wrapped up my November and December blew in with crazy cold temperatures and snow here in the Northeast. Work was extremely frenetic the first two weeks and utterly dead the third week in December. My family does a holiday trip every year for the Christmas season and this year we went to Universal Studios. It was nice to get out of the cold weather and have some fun while we were doing it. Of course the highlight of my trip was the Wizarding World of Harry Potter.

When I look back at this year, I can’t believe it went by so quickly. So many things have happened for the good and the bad. I’m just so thankful that I am healthy, happy, and my family is well. There has been plenty of change in 2016 and I can’t wait for what 2017 brings.

Since I will probably be asleep when the New Year rolls in, Happy New Year all. See you in 2017.

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Belated Summer Wrap Up

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Don’t cry because it’s over, smile because it happened. ~ Dr. Seuss

The old saying goes, when life gives you lemons – make lemonade. However, what is the saying for when life this sort of takes over and everything else falls by the sidelines?

Unfortunately, there is no catchy saying for that.

Apologies for such a delayed couple of posts, but life certainly took over for the past seven months and many things fell to the sidelines. Since my last post I have graduated with an MBA, been on numerous trips and am now flying back to my home from yet another trip to wrap up the year 2016. This is going to be a much shorter recap then I wanted, due to timing, but better late (and abbreviated) than not at all right?

My summer began in Mexico. This has been a yearly trip with a large group of friends for the past couple of years now. We rented out houses and then just lay about on the beach, and go on a few trips as well. The stay lasted a week but of course if felt like one very long summer day. The houses that were rented were steps from the beach. During this trip I was also training for a half marathon so a couple of those days I took some three to seven mile runs in the early morning along the streets of Playa del Carmen and on the beach itself. On this trip I was able to go to the Mayan Ruins of Chichen Itza and to dive into one of the largest cenotes that I’ve been to. Mexico was as always and amazing trip; great food, great company, cool excursions, and beautiful views.

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Beach Running in Playa

The month of June was peppered with small trips to Atlanta to visit my mom and younger sisters, Columbus to have orientation for my new job, and training for my half marathon, which was in July. July brought me to Chicago to run the Rock N’ Roll Half Marathon with a friend from work and my one of my younger sisters. Not only did the race go well (even if it did rain), but also we were able to go to one of my favorite museums, Chicago Art Museum, while we were there. We also to advantage of the weekend to walk around the city and take in the sights not only on foot but also in the back of a horse draw carriage.

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Rock N’ Roll  Chicago Half Marathon with my sister Torryn and friend Jennifer!

July wrapped up with a friend’s wedding at the end of the month and August rolled right in afterwards with a trip to Atlanta for my youngest sisters 14th birthday (BIG deal). Middle of august rolled around with a trip to Cincinnati for a summer meeting for work that happened in the latter half of the 3rd week. That Saturday I drove back up to Cleveland with a friend from Columbus and we walked around downtown Cleveland looking for quirky plastic art installations.

Between work and my busy social calendar, September was here before I knew it. As I spend every Labor Day weekend, I went back to Atlanta for Dragon*Con 2016! Had a blast catching up with friends that I usually only see during this time and had some great moments for being a fan while meeting some actors that have been on my wish list for a while.

My September wasn’t over by a long shot because as soon as I returned to Cleveland I flew back to Atlanta the next weekend for Midtown Music Festival 2016 where I was able to see some of my favorite artists on stage. My favorite was 21 Pilots, they are amazing! It was a great way to wrap up the summer!

 

Next up: Autumn has gone, winter is here, and the end of the year is near…

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Travelling in India: Friends, Food, and New Beginnings

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“If you want something to last forever, you treat it differently. you shield it and protect it. You never abuse it. You don’t expose it to the elements. You don’t make it common or ordinary. If it ever becomes tarnished, you lovingly polish it until it gleams like new. It becomes special because you have made it so, and it grows more beautiful and precious as time goes by.” –F. Burton Howard

Travelling always brings new perspectives, new friends, new thoughts, and new life into me. I think that I grow and learn more every time I go some place I’ve never been, or even revisiting places that I love the most. There is always a new adventure and a new story. On this adventure to India, my family and I were going for the grandest of occasions – a wedding!

One of my dear friends from graduate school invited me to his wedding, clear across the world. Of course I couldn’t say no; Indian weddings are so grandiose and beautiful, steeped in cultural ritual, with great food, awesome music, and infectious laughter. It was going to be an event and I had to see it.

As always traveling to India is not for the faint of heart. It’s a long trip even with a nicely timed layover to get refreshed and eat something before another long flight. My family and I made it to Mumbai on April 1st, a day before the wedding to give our bodies time to recuperate from the trip and acclimate to the weather and the time. We stayed at the Hyatt Regency closest to the Mumbai airport. It was super nice, very convenient, and the breakfast bar was great, I’d highly recommend it if anyone needs a place to stay, for just a rest. It’s farther from all of them historical things to see, but it’s literally 1km from the airport, which is part of the convenience (Hyatt Regency Mumbai).

Later that day our driver picked us up and took us to Pune, India. Pune is further south than Mumbai, it’s about a 2 – 2.5 hour drive. It’s not as humid thank goodness) as Mumbai, but it is very very hot. For the majority of our stay it was always hovering around 100 degrees Farenheit. The hotel we stayed at here was the JW Marriott Pune (JW Marriott Pune). I have to say without a doubt it’s one of the best hotels I’ve ever had the pleasure of staying in. I loved this place and my family did too. Everyone was extremely helpful – a few of the ladies helped us into our sarees for the wedding – and the food was delicious.

There is a club/restaurant at the top of the hotel called Paasha that has some of the best Dal Mahkni I’ve ever had. If you come to Pune, you have to go to the restaurant at least once. The dal on the menu is called Dal Paasha. The other food items that were good here were the chicken scewers, tandori seabass, and the salmon tikka. We also had lamb, but I didn’t taste it, everyone said it was delicous.

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Enough about the hotels, moving onto the wedding – it was fantastic! My friend’s family and his now wife’s family were absolutely wonderful. We were invited to several of the events for the wedding besides the wedding ceremony and the reception. We went to an event the day before the wedding, which was the meeting of both of the familes, extended relatives included, before the main event. It was really nice to see and hear all the rituals behind what was going on. We were severely underdressed, but at least we were able to get our henna done prior to the event to start getting ready for the wedding which was the very next morning.

The very next morning we woke up about 5AM to start getting ready to head to the wedding. Ameya (my friend) and his family invited us to joing them for breakfast before the wedding ceremony and that was at 7AM. Why did we need 2 hours to get ready? We have 6 women getting ready in two hotel rooms and 4 of us had sarees…needless to say it was quite the adventure. The wedding was in a hall that was set up for events like this and it was beautiful. It overlooked the city of Pune and it was quite nice to be there in the morning because it was a lot cooler then it would be in the afternoon. The wedding took up the rest of the morning and early afternoon, but the whole things was just beautiful.

Both families’ were so open and welcoming and the definitely made sure we were comfortable, knew what was going on, and had plenty of food to eat!

I was so happy to make it to Ameya’s big day. It was lovely to see him so happy and to finally meet Purnima – his bride – for the first time.

It was an extremely hectic day for them, but we were able to get a group shot towards the end of the morning, after they were officially married and before they could finally take a break and eat!

 

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(From Left) My Mom, my friends Katie, Amber, Purnima, Ameya, Me, Torryn and Taylor

Of course the day wasn’t over yet, because the reception was the very same night. That was a lot more chill than the wedding. There were a lot of people at the reception as well as the wedding (700 at the wedding verus 2000 at the reception), but we had a great time, and as always, the food was amazing.

The day after the wedding (April 3rd), the whole group went and explored Pune. We visited the Ganesha Temple, and the main market in town. We visited the fort that was in pune and we also went to Aga Khan Palace, which is where Gandhi, his wife, and confidant lived in the latter stages of his life. It was an amazing place with a lot of history, and the grounds were gorgeous. We also went to this amazing restuarant called Vaishali, which makes many different types of dosas and other great dishes. I had the onion and tomator uttapam and it was delicousl – I’d highly recommend stopping in here for a bite, but be forewarned – it’s a popular place, so there is a line. It’s worth the wait though. We also visited a very nice park at the end of the day which had many meandering paths.

On April 4th, our last morning in Pune, Ameya invited us over to his house and we were able to sit and chat with him, Purnima, and his family. It was great getting to catch up and just relax after the hectic couple of days (for my family), and a long couple of months for them! A few more friends from XLRI came to see Ameya as well so we all went out to lunch together before my family and I headed back to Mumbai.

Back in Mumbai, we stayed at the Taj Palace Hotel, which as always was great. We had great views of the Gateway of India and the hotel rooms were nice and comfortable. Over the next day and a half we galavanted around the town via taxi’s and recommendations from a couple of my friends that live in Mumbai. We visited the Gateway of India, blitzed through the main markets in Mumbai, shopping for scarves, sarees, and more. Our group mosied over to a bakery opened by a French couple who live in Mumbai, it’s an amazing little place. The place is called Suzette (Suzette Website).The one we went to is in Nariman Point and there is another further north in Mumbai. I’d highly recommend stopping here. It’s a nice little place to get out of the traffic that is Mumbai!

As always it was a whirlwind of a trip but I could not stay at the Taj Palace Hotel and not get sushi, so on our last night we had a very nice (and expensive) dinner at the sushi joint in the hotel itself.

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And that brings my latest trip to India to a close. It was a blast from beginning to end and I look forward to my next trip back! Until next time folks.

 

Next Up…NYC and Playa del Carmen, Mexico!