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2018 Here and Gone…

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This year has been a roller coaster of delights; ups and downs, and curves galore. I have spent much of this year working on my career goals and getting my writing mojo back. Of course I also spent the year with close friends and family and a slew of traveling. It’s been a great period of growth for me and also a period of reflection.

From a career standpoint I was able to network my way back to the city of my heart – New York City, specifically Brooklyn (and in Brooklyn specifically Bedford Stuyvesant). I am actually proud of myself that I was able to pull it off. I thought I would have to leave my current company to do it and that was almost the case, but things were able to be worked out and I am not back where I truly feel I belong and where I thrive.

I found myself in the streets of New York City, with the help of people who have become my family. We may not be blood related, but they are the family that I have patch-worked together across boroughs, cities, and even countries. Leaving the city wasn’t what I wanted, but I did what was necessary at the time; and now, I’m back to stay.

Writing, ah writing…

Back in February, my muse decided to come out and play and I was very excited. I’m happy to stay that the passion and drive that began this year didn’t fade at all; it’s actually grown in fact. I participated in both Camp NaNoWriMo’s (one in April and one in July), as well as NaNoWriMo in November.

April was a dud in the writing department, namely due to work and the big career move I was trying to make; the muse was not happy. July was better and I was able to win that and get what I needed written, which spawned a lot of planning for November. NaNo was a success in November with me being able to write more than 50k words that month. So exciting! This past month I’ve actually been working on a completely different idea as well as editing some fan-fiction that I have ready to go for some fans in particular.

All in all, it’s been a great year in the writing department – I hope it continues into 2019.

Friends and family rallied around me for a couple things this year; one, I raised money from Leukemia and Lymph Society’s Team in Training and ran the NYC Marathon this year. Huge feat – I was pissed off about my time (didn’t finish anywhere near I wanted), but in the end…I DID IT!!! It was a great accomplishment and something I’ve been wanting to do for years – so go me!

The other item on the agenda was traveling! Every year I travel and I tend to go to multiple places. This year was great because it was an awesome mix of old favorites and new exciting places. And not only were the places I visited a mix of old and new, the people I traveled with were too!

I started my year by traveling to an old favorite; San Francisco, California. I went here with some new friends from work, but one of my oldest friends in the world. It was a great way to start off 2018. Next trip was back to wine country with my sister for the BottleRock music festival. Let me tell you – the festival is expensive, but for the two of us – totally worth it. I love how much I’ve bonded with my younger sister during this time; we’ve learned a lot about each other I feel during this time.

The sisterly time wasn’t done yet; in July, she and I went to Iceland and had an awesome time. August came and went with a new city and new travel buddy! I went to Ireland for the very first time, ran an international half marathon for the first time, and travelled with a new buddy for her first trip to Ireland as well! I’d heard the food was horrible here, but I have to disagree – I ate so well while I was there. The views are fantastic along the coasts, and the city of Dublin is so cute!

As the year has wound to a close, I find myself writing from the beautiful and old city of Lisbon, Portugal. My big brother and I are enjoying our first solo international trip together. This city is breathtaking, the food is delicious, and the weather in December has been phenomenal. We’ve already decided to come back!

So what have I learned this year? There haven’t been any great flashes of insights or big revelations. The knowledge that I have learned this year has always been with me, but I guess this was the year that I finally voiced what I knew to be true for a long time.

Here’s what I figured out:

I can be disappointed in how long it took to do something; but that never negates the accomplishment of actually putting in the work and doing it.

I have an abundance of experiences that I’ve already lived through, and they are preparing me for what is to come.

I have the capacity to be so much more than what I am right now – it will just take time to get there.

I am truly and well loved and cared for.

Simple things right? Like I said, no rocket science in there at all, but still lessons learned and hard won.

With that, I will bid 2018 a hearty goodbye and farewell.

See you in 2019!

Happy New Year!

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Travelling India Part III: Kerala & Rishikesh

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After the school semester ended in India, one of my good friends and I decided to take two weeks and explore parts of India that we were unable to get to during the semester. I knew I wanted to go someplace new and also revisit old pleasurable places. With this in mind our traveling took us south to Kerala and north to Rishikesh.

While hanging out with friends in Bangalore I met the owner of a tour company in India called Travspire (http://travspire.com/). It was a great meeting, Arjun was/is awesome and he was more than happy to help me with the planning of my trip. (Pssst, he was also the organizer of our tour of old Bangalore – really cool guy!)

Moving forward, working with Travspire, our itinerary unfolded before us. We were going to spend 5 days and 4 nights in Kerala before heading to the mountains of India. Travspire coordinated a private driver to meet us at the airport in Cochin and be with us for our entire stay. They also coordinated an all day tour of Fort Kochi, the hotel stay there, and our backwaters bungalow in Alleppey, plus a kayaking experience on the backwaters. Our driver was from that area so he was amazingly helpful in helping us find a respectable Ayurveda Spa to get massages at.

During our stay in Cochin, we stayed within Fort Kochi at one of the few hotels in the Dutch quarter called the Tower House (http://the-tower-house.neemranahotels.com/). This place was great, you could definitely see Dutch influences in the design of the hotel and the hotel was situated close to the water. We arrived in Cochin late afternoon. Our driver promptly took us to our hotel and we just wandered around the fort for the night. The next morning we woke up early enough to take a walk along the waters edge. All across the beach there were these Chinese fishing nets where fishermen were looking for that day’s catch.

At the Tower House, our breakfast was included in the room price; we ate a more western style breakfast that day, before meeting with our tour guide. The tour was very good. He started close to the hotel and then took us along to one of the oldest churches in the fort, to a renowned spice shop (where Rachel and I bought a ton of spices), to the last royal family’s house in the fort, and finally to a couple of antique shops. The whole tour was great and we had an enjoyable first half of the day.

In the afternoon we drove to Alleppey, which most people equate with the backwaters in Kerala. There are backwaters really all over the place, but Alleppey is the most well known stop for them, due to the fact there are many there. During our stay here, we stayed in the Katis Home (http://www.kaitshome.com/index.html), which is a homestay along the backwaters. This place was amazing. The family who runs it was so very nice and thoughtful. We had the majority of our meals here and all of them were delicious (the masala chai was also really really good). Here we had our own little cottage/bungalow and there was a gazebo right on the water. It was peaceful and relaxing, which was exactly what we were looking for after our semester.

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How close were we to the backwaters?…this close. Pic taken from gazebo at Katis House.

The kayaking experience on the backwaters was also very neat. We were up at the crack of dawn, around 5:30AM. The kayaking took place in the early morning sun, which made it even more fun, because it was quiet and before people began to start their day. The tour group was maybe 8 of us, and they had a boat that followed us the entire time in case we wanted a break. We kayaked for about 2.5 hours in 20-25 min intervals. It was breathtaking. Our kayaking tour also included a traditional Kerala Indian breakfast, which was phenomenal.

The Ayurveda Spa we went to was also really nice. The prices were decent and the place was very clean. The masseurs were really good at their job and the whole experience was interesting to saw the least. A traditional massage involves a lot of oil, and depending on the add-ons you can add hot stones or other things to the regular massage. I think this was the first time I was pretty much naked in front of someone for a massage, but when in Rome right? It was all very professional and I was super relaxed after the whole experience and I decided another massage was in my future.

During our last day at the homestay, we took a kayak that the homestay had and kayaked a little up the backwaters right outside our front door. We also walked to the nearest village and pretty much just looked around, bought some ice cream, and just enjoyed the fact that we were there.

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One of the many beautiful dwellings to/from town by the Katis House. It was a very good walk.

I had such a good time there and I know my friend did as well. For anyone going to Kerala, Cochin and Alleppey are must dos on the list. I’ll probably revisit these places on my next trip there and of course, go farther afield.

We flew into Rishikesh the next day, not knowing that a large earthquake had hit Nepal and triggered an avalanche on Mount Everest. Yeah you remember that day last year? Well we were on our way to Delhi airport for our connection and were apparently in the air when it happened. Crazy right? We arrived in Rishikesh around 9pm that night.

Rishikesh is hill station at the base of some of the Himalayan mountain chain. This place from what I’ve been told is a very holy place and the Ganga River that flows in this part of the country is very clean and a place where many sunrise and sunset rituals are preformed. There are many yoga retreats and ashrams in and around Rishikesh and all number of stores and places to eat. The first time I came was in 2011 and coming back was very surprised at how much more there was. It is now touristier than I remember, but still a very cool place.

As I did before, I stayed at the Sattva Wellness and Retreat center (http://thesattva.com/). This place opened up in 2011, so the first time I was one of the first guests. Many amenities have been added since that time, but this place – I just really find peace here every time I’m there. There is a riverbed down the steps of the resort and you can hear the water running along it even up in the rooms of the restort, it makes more a very calming experience. Our entire stay in Rishikesh and at the Sattva center was one of lazy relaxation. We went into town, we hiked up the riverbed, we had massages again, and we just rested. It was a great way to end our stay in India.

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